I am submitting another intimate writing in hopes of obtaining another free subscription. To be honest, I have recently felt some of my old inhibitions about sex returning. My husband and I were so excited to find this site and we even made our own ``moral erotic videos`` and wished to submit them for your couples video project. I guess I couldn`t wait to been seen by the world (even though my husband is very shy about his very attractive body), so I submitted our videos [mostly of me masturbating in front of my husband] to `` seemyorgasm.com``.
The reason my old inhibitions about sex have sort of returned is the feedback I have received from other Christian sisters. it is not enough to have only the opinions of men [including pastors] advocating for more intense sexual intimacy between spouses.
Another issue I have run across is that my husband is so deeply committed to evangelism that he will switch gears [even in an adult bookstore as I saw for myself] and testify about Jesus and God's love and find himself lamenting that everyone in the store is ``broken`` and living on the margins, without God or stable family lives. I mention this because I think I can share with other Christian sisters the secret to guilt-free sexual exploration [including ``moral`` erotic videos]. The times when my husband has just relaxed and enjoyed the humanness and intimacy of video sex, I have observed that the couples that my husband and I have watched as they make love have clearly professed a Christian faith somewhere in the mix. I know it sounds strange, but I have a story to prove it. Last year, I learned that there was a `free Methodist woman` in our small community who had made a sex video with her husband and posted it on an adult website. It was really not as much of a scandal as you might think in our little' mostly Mennonite, town.
This was the first ``moral erotic video`` that my husband and I watched together and it was beautiful. The key for my husband, I believe, is that the woman has clearly lived a Christ-led life in our community and continues so [her husband as well]. This is why my husband does not react negatively when we re-watch the `Methodist` woman masturbating to wonderful whimpering orgasms while her husband licks the glistening sweetness that leaks down her thighs [when we re-watch the video' that is]. I now understand why my husband is so uncomfortable with adult bookstores. The porn industry does not care about God or marriage and family. But we do, and watching married Christian couples make love has strengthened our own marriage. P.S. we have found other Christian couples making love and masturbating on various internet sites.
Comment by: New Subscriber Date: 8/22/2013 7:18:19 PM
I am curious as to whether you could provide me via e-mail a link to some of your moral videos (not just yours, but also any others you have found?
Comment by: Old Site Date: 2/9/2013 7:49:43 PM
A reader says ... Do you know what you called your video that is on seemyorgasm and what is the video of the methodist lady? I have Mennonite background and love your openess and encourage it as I would like to see more of this type of thing. It would be great if this site would offer a spot to submit videos.
A reader says ... from the author of `` christians can love sex too``; i honestly do not know how to specifically retrieve the video we sent to ``seemyorgasm.com``. the video was posted for a few days and then it seemed like it was replaced by newer submissions. i would love to watch our video again on the website if i could retrieve it. i am not computer savvy because i grew up amish. seriously, my husband and i both grew up old order amish.you should view my submission on ``bundling`` and masturbation. one more note ; i remember that the video of the `methodist` woman and her husband was not really the first married sex video my husband and i watched together [because we found a random married sex video by searching on my husband`s laptop. we made love like crazy that night and into the next day].the ` methodist` woman`s video was the first time my husband and i deliberately sought out a SPECIFIC adult movie and enjoyed it together.again the key to my husband relaxing and just cherishing the beauty of the human sexuality on the screen is the couple MUST be married and if possible, professing christians. i have called lots of `family video` stores [a chain store in our area]and begged them to carry married monogamous sex videos. i have also called adult book stores and told them that if they switched from `immoral` hurtful pornography to monogamous married sex videos and vibrators and sinclair institute stuff, that we christians would not have a problem with them anymore and , in fact, we would be their biggest fans!!! may god bless all of you with the wonderful ` gift of sex` and let`s take over the porn business with super lusty married christian lovemaking!
sex! yes! yours in christ, maedli
A reader says ... A site couples can go to that has pictures is likemynudebody.com. Browsing them might be a turn on.
A reader says ... Author says; thank you so much for your wonderful feedback on my posting entitled ``christians can enjoy sex too``. i am absolutely in agreement with your positions on christian sexuality[ except to say that instead of abortions the world needs to masturbate alot, lot,lot more and have sex within marriage, you know] .anyhow, again thank you for your response and i do not mean that i condemn the women who have turned to abortion anymore than i condemn the man who turns to heroin.i love them and want them healed in christ. my sincere prayer is that christian couples will use this website and the `` christian nymphos`` site, and especially that your marriagevideo project will be blessed and will bless them. i do not know if you post the names of adult websites, but my husband and i saw the `methodist` woman and her husband on a video by a company called video marketing concepts, i think,and they also go by the name, promotions company. of course, we already knew she was a christian, because it was all over town that a local woman and her husband had made a sex video for sale. it was beautiful and human and god-honoring,though very explicit. we have also seen professing christian women masturbate on ``sybian.com`` and ``yanks.com``, though maybe others do not like the idea of a woman masturbating without a husband present. i feel sin is sin because of the consequences; unwanted pregnancy and abortion,venereal disease,young girls in serious relationships too soon,dangerous chemical contraceptives[i should know], and so on. you know, intercourse has consequences, but girls should MASTURBATE morning, noon, and night. girls who have not had an orgasm by themselves will probobly not orgasm with a partner. that`s a fact. so that is why i love to watch christian women masturbate, married or not. but i welcome any thoughts on this issue. thanks again and may god bless all of you and your god-given sexuality.
A reader says ... Also anyway you could give us the search criteria so we can see the fun time you and your husband had on seemyorgasm
A reader says ... so, where did you find these adult videos with Christian men and women? can you post the links or the sites? Thank you.
A reader says ... It is great that you and your husband are enjoying a healthy sex life and that you have the freedom as a Christian to use moral erotic videos to help your marriage. I recently was listening to Dr. Dobson interview Dr. Gary Smalley and Dr. Dobson asked Gary how Christian married couples are doing in the area of sex. And Gary responded "frozen". And so you and your husband are in the minority of Christians who have vibrant healthy sex lives. I attribute the fact that Christian divorce rates are just as high as non-Christian divorces rates I attribute this to the frozen sex lives of Christian couples.
And so this site is trying to help Christians learn the truth of what The Bible says so they can have happier sex lives and not argue about issues like porn and instead of ending up getting divorced instead end up going out into the world and telling people about Jesus like your husband does! Amen!
It's great that your husband is committed to Evangelism! Praise God! You mentioned your husband finds himself, lamenting that everyone in the store is ``broken`` and living on the margins. Yes I believe that Christians are partially responsible for many of those broken people out there who live on the margins and buy porn at the Adult video stories. Why?
There are millions of Americans who believe in God but dont attend church because they feel it is ok to do something like use erotic videos to help their marriage and the church condemns them. Or maybe they feel it is ok to have a glass of wine occasionally but the church condemns them. Or maybe they have had an abortion and the church condemns it. Or maybe they think it is ok to subscribe to Playboy and the church condemns it.
Jesus talks about how we should not create man-made rules that people cant keep. He talks about this in Matthew 23. Matthew 23 verse 4 says, They tie up heavy loads and put them on men's shoulders, but they themselves are not willing to lift a finger to move them.
When the church condemns something that God does not condemn, Paul called this doctrines of demons. 1 Timothy 4 verses 1 to 6 Paul says, 1 The Spirit clearly says that in later times some will abandon the faith and follow deceiving spirits and things taught by demons. 2 Such teachings come through hypocritical liars, whose consciences have been seared as with a hot iron. 3They forbid people to marry and order them to abstain from certain foods, which God created to be received with thanksgiving by those who believe and who know the truth. 4 For everything God created is good, and nothing is to be rejected if it is received with thanksgiving, 5 because it is consecrated by the word of God and prayer.
Paul says, For everything God created is good, and nothing is to be rejected if it is received with thanksgiving. Paul specifically refers to two things food and marriage, but Paul also makes a general statement about everything that is received with thanksgiving to God.
The church condemning nudity started with Queen Victoria. That is why we say we live in the Victorian Age. The Bible never condemns being nude or seeing someone nude assuming the person nude consented to letting people see them nude. In Bible times nudity was common.
So God does not condemn married couples for using erotic videos in their marriages. Similar arguments can be made for allowing Christians to have a glass of wine. And similar arguments can be made for not condemning women who have had abortions.
Now what if the church is wrong on all these issues? Then the church was a stumbling block to all those people out there who believe in God but dont go to church and are pushed into lives of spiritual isolation and not serving God, because of the unfair judgment of the church.
In Matthew 12:7, Jesus said, If you had known what these words mean, 'I desire mercy, not sacrifice,' you would not have condemned the innocent. Jesus said that we wont make that mistake and be a stumbling block by condemning people if we would understand that what God wants from Christians is that we please God by living to show people mercy, not try to please God by living a life of sacrifice.
In Romans chapter 2 verses 1 to 4 Paul explains this concept when he says, 1 You, therefore, have no excuse, you who pass judgment on someone else, for at whatever point you judge the other, you are condemning yourself, because you who pass judgment do the same things. 2 Now we know that God's judgment against those who do such things is based on truth. 3 So when you, a mere man, pass judgment on them and yet do the same things, do you think you will escape God's judgment? 4 Or do you show contempt for the riches of his kindness, tolerance and patience, not realizing that God's kindness leads you toward repentance?
So Paul condemns Christians who judge others, because Paul says they are show contempt to God because they dont realize that God leads people to change by showing them kindness, tolerance and patience.
So Christians are being a stumbling block to millions of people when they condemn people for things God does not condemn people for such as looking at nudity, having wine for dinner, having had an abortion, and things like that.
So we need to proclaim the truth that God loves people and wants them to believe that Jesus is Gods son and that Jesus died for their sins and that we all are called to good works and to show mercy.
What has happened with modern day Christianity, is that Christians get their feeling of holiness by keeping a set of rules and by condemning those who do not keep those rules. Why? Because we Christians dont want to do the good works that we are called to do and so instead we build ourselves up by tearing down others, with our judgmental views.
When Im in a social group of Christian men, I know this is true because they either talk about hunting, golf, sports, or the new house, or the new car, or they talk about how bad the liberals are or how bad pornography is, or how bad planned parenthood is. In Matthew 23 verse 15 Jesus warns that religion with lots of man-made rules results in a mess when he says, "Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You travel over land and sea to win a single convert, and when he becomes one, you make him twice as much a son of hell as you are. Jesus goes on to say in verse 23, you have neglected the more important matters of the lawjustice, mercy and faithfulness. So the important matters of the law are not porn, wine and abortion those are not even in the law. But rather the important matters of the law are justice (not enforcing justice but rather treating people fairly), mercy (being merciful to people), and faithfulness (being dependable to those you love and to God).
So I thank God for you and your husband. Pray that Christian culture will change. Pray that Christian culture will see that we as Christians should be focused on good works, not on condemning everyone who does not keep our own personal convictions. Why? Because when we judge others for things God does not judge them for, Paul says we show contempt to God not realizing that they way God changes peoples hearts is through his kindness, tolerance and patience. So most of those folks at the Adult Video store could get saved and be good Christians serving God with good works, if only we would not condemn them.
In closing, when you think about it, it is sad that there arent any moral erotic videos to help Christian marriages. Why arent there any? Who said, All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing. Since Christians are so against nudity, it has left unbelievers to run the porn industry.
And so when Christian married couples need help in their marriages they end up watching immoral story lines. This can be a stumbling block to the married couples. Many Christian couples will argue about whether they should watch them or not. Others will feel guilty for watching them. Some will watch them and they may create jealousy and think their spouse would cheat on them like the people in the video, since they liked watching it. All these are stumbling blocks to the married couples. But who is to blame? Not the porn industry they are non-Christians just doing what non-Christians do.
The blame lies at the feet of those who make the rules for Christians. That is what Jesus said in Matthew 23. If the Christian leaders did not condemn nudity, then we would have Christian moral erotic videos for married couples to use to help their marriages. The Christian leaders who condemn the use of moral erotic materials in marriages they are the stumbling blocks that have caused Christian married sex lives to be frozen and for Christian divorce rates to be as high or higher than those of non-believers.
May God bless your marriages and may God help Christians to see the truth!