All relationships have some adjustment periods, but being hurt shouldn't be part of being in love. Loving relationships have good qualities, such as support from your partner, a willingness to communicate, a desire to compromise, and open and honest communication.
When you do not have these fundamental qualities in a relationship, that relationship isn't likely to grow, and become something that you desire. We all turn to our loved ones for support from time to time. When your loved one does not offer you their support, it may be time to look at your relationship.
As we all want to nurture those that we love. We want the best in life for those that we care about. If your partner is unwilling to listen to you, and to your problems, they are not meeting your needs when you need support. Support can come in many forms, someone lending an ear, someone going out of their way to help you, or something as simple as a phone call to cheer you up.